I have always loved having animals in my life. In fact, I can remember only a couple of years during my lifetime when I did not have a pet. When I was born, my parents already owned a Dalmatian, so I grew up with a four-legged sibling. Our dog, Pepper, was my constant companion, from the time I could walk (so I am told) until he died when I was ten. Being a large breed dog, he possessed a good temperament and endured my constant tugging of his tail and ears. He was the one thing I could always rely on, especially after my parents divorced when I was four. Pets are very sensitive to moods as well. When I cried, he licked my tears away. When I was happy, he rejoiced with me. He was always around to play with, to confide in (offering an unconditional listening ear) and to depend on. He died when I was ten years old and it was like losing my best friend.
Within two weeks we had another dog, at the suggestion of our doctor, because I entered a deep depression. Our new dog, a 2-year-old Doberman, quickly became my new best friend and brought me out of my depression by providing me with something to love and by loving me in return.
Having a dog my entire life taught me responsibility from a young age. As far back as I can remember, part of my chores consisted of taking care of the dog. I learned that, not only did I rely on him; he relied on me as well. Since he could not get his own food, water or clean up after himself, I quickly realized it was up to us to provide for him. I knew he needed me and that instilled me with a sense of accountability that I never outgrew. I think it helped that my family started me out young with a pet, as it was second nature to feed him and let him outside.
Having a family pet provides your child with a marvelous gift. Yes, often times you end up caring for the animal as well, but the benefits to your son or daughter far outweigh any small inconveniences this causes. Plus, the benefits carry over to you as well. Animals are great stress relievers. Just petting an animal can make you feel more relaxed, something everyone could use.
Choosing the right animal for your family is a key decision. Before you run out and bring home the first animal you see, investigate. A dog may be a good choice, provided you have adequate room for exercise or are willing to walk him daily. If you don't have room or the time for walking, a cat may be a better pick. Keep in mind, having a pet is also a long-term decision. Larger breed dogs don't live as long as smaller breed dogs or cats, which is something to keep in mind, especially if your children are older. An animal that has a life expectancy of 15-18 years is a very long commitment. If your children are older and will be leaving home before the pet's life ends, you may be the one left with the animal. Besides dogs and cats, other types of pets, like lizards and fish, that don't require as much attention, can still provide your child with acceptance, love and teach them responsibility and compassion. Without a doubt, these are good lessons to learn.
Terry J. Coyier is a 37-year-old college student studying for an Associates of Applied Sciences degree. She is also a freelance writer who writes on a variety of topics. She lives with her son in the Dallas/Ft. Worth Metroplex. This article has been submitted in affiliation with http://www.PetLovers.Com/ which is a site for Pet Forums.
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